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If you live offended you will only be hurting yourself. Learn to be as flexible as bamboo and encourage situations so that they do not exceed you.
Some people live offended. Far from allowing himself to live an existence in harmony with his own, in respect and harmony with his surroundings, he chooses to "give himself against a wall" almost every moment.
Is the world conspired to go against it? Absolutely. What happens is that, in this subtle but complex world of emotions and personality, there are those who make offense a constant habit.
Far from seeing these people as problematic focuses to avoid, it is necessary to understand what happens inside them.
Hypersensitivity, low self-esteem and lack of psychological resources make your thinking schemes too harsh.
Any word, gesture or action is interpreted as an offense. This is where the essence of the problem lies. That low self-concept sees problems where there are none. He sees hatreds where they do not exist.
Personalities who see storms when only the sun shines. We propose to reflect on it.
"You can not talk to yourself." "You're offending yourself for nothing." "It is that you are impossible, your thing goes from bad to worse".
If at any point you have been told these phrases, it is very possible that they have also sat you wrong. However, behind these verbalizations lies a reality.
If those around us have problems interacting with us, something happens. If they are not comfortable, if there is no harmony in communication or treatment, it is necessary to know why.
Far from thinking that "everyone around me" hates me, it is necessary to make an act of deep and delicate reflection.
We must remove each layer of that onion that surrounds us to know what is inside us.
Next, let's find out what happens to whoever feels eternally offended.
It is possible that your high expectations are those that do not fit the reality. Somehow, we all have an idea about what others should do. About how they should treat us and how they should react to certain things.
In the first place, it should be clarified that these approaches are not entirely adequate. Let's see why.
The only thing you should be clear about is how you want others to treat you. You deserve respect and you must demand it. It is a personal need that we all have.
Now, what the rest do, stop doing or decide is not our competence. Each person is free to decide what he wants and to act as he wants, whenever there is respect.
If we become obsessed that our partner behaves in such a way, that our friends do this and the other for us, we will have a really bad time.
To move forward with more tranquility and internal balance, remember something: do not expect anything from anyone, save everything from yourself.
Whoever lives eternally offended is like a stone or an oak tree. To understand this, try the following:
Imagine you are a tree before an ocean. The waters come and go, the wind is sometimes soft, and sometimes intense. Sometimes that ocean caresses you, but other times it hits you with its stormy days.
Now, if you are a very regal and firm tree, that ocean, its waves and the elements will finish you down. In such a scenario, everything firm, everything that appears obstinate, ends up in the soil.
However, if you are like that flexible branch of bamboo, you will dance with the wind and not the most ferocious storm will make you fall. Because you adapt, because you are not like a wall that receives each blow.
Anyone who is offended by anything creates mistrust.
If you live always offended yours will stop feeling good with you and away.
If you only see offenses when they offer you kind words, you will create distance.
Quiérete a little more and stop the noise of your obsessive thoughts
The world does not hate you. No one is against you. Do not accumulate offenses where there are not, nor see evil acts where there was never any intention to hurt you.
Whoever does not love himself becomes demanding with others. He hopes, above all else, that the rest offer him what he does not give: love, recognition, respect.
If we do not begin to work from the inside we will project our darkest abysses to the outside until, little by little, all our reality becomes a hell.
Not worth it. Say no to useless suffering and do not quench more fires with gasoline. Start by repairing your wounds and gaps and offer the love you need.
Only when one loves oneself does the world begin to advance in a much better way.
Some people live offended. Far from allowing himself to live an existence in harmony with his own, in respect and harmony with his surroundings, he chooses to "give himself against a wall" almost every moment.
Is the world conspired to go against it? Absolutely. What happens is that, in this subtle but complex world of emotions and personality, there are those who make offense a constant habit.
Far from seeing these people as problematic focuses to avoid, it is necessary to understand what happens inside them.
Hypersensitivity, low self-esteem and lack of psychological resources make your thinking schemes too harsh.
Any word, gesture or action is interpreted as an offense. This is where the essence of the problem lies. That low self-concept sees problems where there are none. He sees hatreds where they do not exist.
Personalities who see storms when only the sun shines. We propose to reflect on it.
I live offended 24 hours a day, 7 days a week
"You can not talk to yourself." "You're offending yourself for nothing." "It is that you are impossible, your thing goes from bad to worse".
If at any point you have been told these phrases, it is very possible that they have also sat you wrong. However, behind these verbalizations lies a reality.
If those around us have problems interacting with us, something happens. If they are not comfortable, if there is no harmony in communication or treatment, it is necessary to know why.
Far from thinking that "everyone around me" hates me, it is necessary to make an act of deep and delicate reflection.
We must remove each layer of that onion that surrounds us to know what is inside us.
Next, let's find out what happens to whoever feels eternally offended.
Nobody offends you, it's your expectations
It is possible that your high expectations are those that do not fit the reality. Somehow, we all have an idea about what others should do. About how they should treat us and how they should react to certain things.
In the first place, it should be clarified that these approaches are not entirely adequate. Let's see why.
The only thing you should be clear about is how you want others to treat you. You deserve respect and you must demand it. It is a personal need that we all have.
Now, what the rest do, stop doing or decide is not our competence. Each person is free to decide what he wants and to act as he wants, whenever there is respect.
If we become obsessed that our partner behaves in such a way, that our friends do this and the other for us, we will have a really bad time.
To move forward with more tranquility and internal balance, remember something: do not expect anything from anyone, save everything from yourself.
The world is not against you: it is you who must harmonize with the world
Whoever lives eternally offended is like a stone or an oak tree. To understand this, try the following:
Imagine you are a tree before an ocean. The waters come and go, the wind is sometimes soft, and sometimes intense. Sometimes that ocean caresses you, but other times it hits you with its stormy days.
Now, if you are a very regal and firm tree, that ocean, its waves and the elements will finish you down. In such a scenario, everything firm, everything that appears obstinate, ends up in the soil.
However, if you are like that flexible branch of bamboo, you will dance with the wind and not the most ferocious storm will make you fall. Because you adapt, because you are not like a wall that receives each blow.
To live eternally offended is to make us do even more harm. However, the culprits will be us.
Anyone who is offended by anything creates mistrust.
If you live always offended yours will stop feeling good with you and away.
If you only see offenses when they offer you kind words, you will create distance.
Quiérete a little more and stop the noise of your obsessive thoughts
The world does not hate you. No one is against you. Do not accumulate offenses where there are not, nor see evil acts where there was never any intention to hurt you.
Whoever does not love himself becomes demanding with others. He hopes, above all else, that the rest offer him what he does not give: love, recognition, respect.
If we do not begin to work from the inside we will project our darkest abysses to the outside until, little by little, all our reality becomes a hell.
Not worth it. Say no to useless suffering and do not quench more fires with gasoline. Start by repairing your wounds and gaps and offer the love you need.
Only when one loves oneself does the world begin to advance in a much better way.
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